November 13th, 2008

Finding the perfect people for graduate vacancies


I have found recruiting
for graduate vacancies one of the most testing jobs of my career. For
regular jobs, a CV is sufficient to highlight the technical ability
of a person. It is much more difficult for graduate jobs, as there
are more complex questions that need to be answered which cannot
simply be written on a CV.

Deciding a persons
suitability to a graduate job is simple in theory: they need to show
experience or transferrable skills that will enable them to be
successful in the position. However, my vast experience tells me that
many a ?suitable’ candidate on the face of it, has proven to be
?unsuitable’ once actually employed.

March 9th, 2008

Psychological Wounds Of Divorce

Much later, I came to know that the parents of the child had divorced a few moths back. Suddenly, her aloofness and fear of leaving her mother made sense.

It is not unknown for children of divorced parents to project such behaviour patterns. Every child of every age group is affected by the divorce of its parents. Some children are lucky enough to be spared the long term negativity of the effect. Others suffer a lifetime.

The Psychological Impact of the Negative Emotions of Divorce

Fear

January 7th, 2008

Redesigning Your Life After Divorce

It is tough when a long-term marriage breaks up but harbouring feelings of bitterness does not serve you well. These negative feelings prolong the agony and hold you back from rebuilding your life. Instead, why not redesign your life?Remember that it will take time to ‘get over’ your partner leaving but also believe that you will recover.

The Road to Recovery

December 13th, 2007

Divorce To Remarriage: Your Step By Step Guide To Step-parenting

As many of you are preparing to re-marry, you probably have expectations of what life will be like with your new spouse and new family. You’re thinking something along the lines of “happily ever after” perhaps? Sorry to burst your bubble but let’s take time out for a quick reality check.

People rarely have a clue what a relationship with a step-child will be like. It’s not because we’re stupid. It’s just that there aren’t any guide books for step families. We just assume it’s ok to play by biological family rules. This leads to many false assumptions. Today, I’d like to look at some of the most common and present a more realistic view of what you’re likely to experience.

December 1st, 2007

Choosing A Good Divorce Attorney Can Be Difficult

Going through a divorce is a devastating thing for most people. It is one of the worst times in anyone’s life. It is an emotional time, not knowing what your financial status will be until it is over. Whether you want to or not, it is critical that you find an excellent divorce attorney. Your financial stability depends on it. However it is not always as easy as it sounds. You need to find the best there is, and often it will take some research in order to find someone who will represent your best interests.

November 24th, 2007

How To Be Well Nourished In Your Relationship

It’s delicious to feel well nourished in relationships. There’s a yearning and hunger we bring to our partners for all kinds of food: warmth, kindness, appreciation, time spent together. However, when food is not forthcoming or not enough, some will do anything to get fed. Right from the moment we are born, we connect being fed with being loved.

Many become fixated on one person, who they see as their sole source of well-being. The first thing to notice is the intense desire for receiving. This is the idea of the child - feed me and all will be well.


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